I've a question- as always- why are there so many depressing moments in our life? Why people are so harsh to you sometimes even if your mistake is vary small one? Why things don't always seem to be falling in place even though you try &; give your 200%? I remember a nice song from a Hindi movie (i forgot the name). The lyrics goes like
"Ishwar allah tere jahaan mein nafarat kyun hai jang hai kyun...tera dil to itna bada hai..insaan ka dil tang hai kyun??....Kadam kadam par sarahad kyun hai sari jameen toh teri hai....is duniyan ke daman par insaan ke lahu ka rang hai kyun??...."
The song goes on &; never fails to mesmerize me or should I say never fails to take me in the Contemplation mode!! Like the still scenes from a movie, many images slid in front of me. What is there in it?? Many occasions at which I was beaten up, not because of my fault but somebody Else's, many times when somebody- with whom I had no issues at all- seems to talk like settling some personal scores with me &; I couldn't do a damn to him, those moments when I wished for hearing for something positive & god made me hear quintessential negative things & NOs, all those memories of sad moments when I felt like being dragged by life (which is so unusual to me) to just nowhere (or in the trench of sadness- if at all somewhere).
I think..... at those moments, god or thermodynamics, whatever you like to call, wants me to go through those tough roads so that I'll get more stronger by the end of those roads. The tears I shed, would return to me becoming the sweet pools of water to energise me back.
Moreover, I feel that at times when life sucks, pat your own back at times when you do small but good things & avoided the path of sins, &; cruelty. You might have done small thing-no matter how small- never forget to cheer yourself up. You know, when our mind makes us do wrong things, sins, we feel guilty &; scold our mind. But do you remember the occasions when you had done something good, some charity, showed some compassion had you congratulated yourself up for not choosing to do opposite of it?? If no, start it from now on, because you are reading a good blog instead of something bad on the Internet which can also be as easily accessible as this blog.
And lastly, about depressing moments, learn what the crux of the matter that time wanted to teach you, talk to someone you love the most, forget those people &; moments which spoiled your life, rather wish them all the best &; take on your life with a new energy. The life will be very beautiful.
(I would like to mention with all the humility & modesty that this is easier said than done)
God bless you...!!!!
